Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker

Cops love sex, drugs, and rock and roll

Not for themselves, of course

For you

They get giddy when you’re filled with new ideas that could make you step out of line

Take to the streets

Riot

Resist

Pigs despise your cooperation because they so badly want to fuck you up, tase you, choke you out, shoot you

So that more of us are lured out into the open

So they can test tax funded toys against our non-compliance

Let’s see what we’re paying for

Don’t let them gaslight you with “Protect & Serve”

Light them up instead and make sure you use some gas

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Self-Published, Writing Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Self-Published, Writing Tolar Parker

It’s what’s on the inside that counts. Is that so? Let’s open you up and look at your damaged organs, fatty. 

You’re doing great! Don’t let the spotlight distract you. It’s just a heart attack. A hydraulic press crushing your sternum, making it hard to breath. I’m going to count off this first track to the tempo of “Staying Alive”. Did you run a sound check on your arteries so we can hear them screaming as the plaque fortifies for the encore? No? It’s cool. We’ve got a great front of house sound guy that will mix it live. Hell! We can make it a live album! We can call it “Dead at the Pizza Inn in the Key of Flatlining”. It could be your greatest work yet. It’s sure to beat out Billie Eilish for the Grammy. 

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Self-Published, Writing Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Self-Published, Writing Tolar Parker

We will help you craft a campaign and successfully reach your target audience.

Their billboards line the streets like crucifixions to remind me of who I was and who I will always be. Great marketing that sells me back to myself with words I’ve come to believe. This ad agency is getting its money worth, so I’ll remain alone and keep my hands and wallet in my pockets. 

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker

The god in my hands

Made in my own likeness

For likes

I command you

Show me

Tell me

How to get max gains and lose weight

How to notice the red flags and loosely toss around the word “narcissist”

Show me

Tell me

All the conspiracies I should believe and which zodiac sign will fuck up my life

Show me

Tell me

How to keep my eyeliner from running and get my teeth whiter

How to pick up women and make money

Show me

Tell me 

About the depths of my loneliness

About my need for external validation

Show me 

Tell me 

How to hate people different from myself and which Bible verse candidate to vote for

Show me

Tell me

About the war torn countries and make me care for ninety seconds

Show me

Tell me

How the world is coming to an end and the benefits of going vegan

Show me

Tell me

Which celebrity is cancelled and which chakra needs clearing

Show me

Tell me

Show me

Tell me

How to live

How to die

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker

Swipe right. You won’t regret it.

She wants a man. A good man. A southern man. A strong man. A wrong man. A man feels safe around because of his arsenal of guns. A man she feels comfortable enough around to be homophobic or racist. A god fearing man. A man that slaps her when she doesn’t submit and uses the same hand to comfort her at church the next day. A says he’s a sixty minute man, but lasts sixty seconds man. A hard working man. A drunk man because he “deserves it” man. A demands respect man. A man who can put her on his shoulders at a country music concert. A can name every player on a college football team even though he didn’t go man. A one in a million man that’s the dime a dozen man. 

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker

Being a junkie is easy work to get. I have two job openings that just became available on my street if you’re interested.

At a BP gas station near the interstate, a female NPC doing her best junkie act roams aimlessly around the station. She wanders into my field of view as I’m pumping gas. She looks at me and then sees my 10 year old daughter sitting in the passenger seat. “Tell that girl she looks like a whore!” the junkie shouts. “I should know, I have two!” She begins to walk towards the tractor trailer parking lot. “You motherfucker!” And then this Lot Lizard just seemingly disappeared. I wonder where her respawn point is?

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker

I wanted to be your white rabbit

Piquing your curiosity so that you would follow me 

Out of the suburbs

Out of the mundane

Beyond the normal

Beyond the accepted

To a wonderland

To the ragged edges of the wild

Places that don’t fit in your parent’s precious box nor can they be defined by society’s polite pleasantries

But you stayed

Seeking comfort under the label of being a “good girl”

Only talking of being wild and free

Of breaking the chains 

Of setting sail for new lands

But never risking departure from the safety of your harbor

Remaining in a cage of opinions and expectation

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker

Bible Belt Blues Jam

The good boys and girls club

Talking up their southern American Jesus

Sipping on fake coffee

Glory glory glory

Praying about thinking about praying to think about praying to think about saying, "yes" if Johnny asks them out

Insert Bible verse here

Can I get an “amen” for the lord making me nervous and awkward?

And where is Johnny?

He’s with Pastor Kyle

On their knees

And they’re not praying the gay away

They’re working on the gift of tongues

Hallelujah!

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Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Author, Writer, Writing, Self-Published Tolar Parker

Just Like You

“Okay! Okay! Okay!”

Panic catches in my throat

I extend my arms, palms out

Waiting for the blitz

“Just please, stop yelling.”

At 39, I was transported back to a teenager

To a mother coming home from a parent-teacher conference

Rushing into the house

Rancid words

“You’re such a loser!”

Her tiny hand gaining the strength of ten men as it fits around my throat

Pushing me to the wall

A belt materialized out of thin air

Buckle first in this house

A house of surprise terror

Ambushing

So here I am, mother

Decades later

Thinking I’m only worthy of this kind of love

An alluring and familiar violence

Watching a resurrected reflection in the eyes of another

I brace myself because I can’t run and hide

No escape

“You’re such a fucking coward!” echoing to keep me in the present belittling rage

It seems I’ve never acquired the right skill to detect and defuse the tick tick tick tick of the obscenities people keep hidden

Just like you

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Authenticity, Writer, Writing, Author, Self-Published Tolar Parker Authenticity, Writer, Writing, Author, Self-Published Tolar Parker

Name Dropping

Where do I fit in?

Amongst the pretty people

Holding hands

Walking their matching chocolate labs

Driving their Broncos to daddy’s beach house

Relying on a name

A lineage

Your name is not worth more than anyone else’s, but still you drop it to others as a form of currency and in return, expect respect

I’m quietly crawling in the dark to make my name my own 

A lineage worth warring for

But it’s not carrying forth generational wealth

It’s breaking generational curses

Abuse

Racism

Bigotry

Putting fury and hatred in the grave to rot

And I’m going to slam dance on that mother fucker

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