Songs to the Ether

Tolar Parker 4/25/25 Tolar Parker 4/25/25

4.25.25

I would like to spend the rest of my days flirting with you. Whether it’s a cheesy line or something unexpected, flirting with you will be a delight - today, tomorrow, and all the days beyond. Give me your best lines, lover.

Tolar Parker 4/24/25 Tolar Parker 4/24/25

4.24.25

It’s raining again.

It sounds so divine falling during the slow, silent morning. The only other sound I would love to break up trickling on the windows would be your voice.

Calling from another room.

Singing softly.

Laughing.

Before you curl up with me in a quiet moment of connection.

Tolar Parker 4/23/25 Tolar Parker 4/23/25

4.23.25

I will face the doubts

That love will find me again

Today needs more faith

Tolar Parker 4/22/25 Tolar Parker 4/22/25

4.22.25

I’m not off to the strongest start this morning and I wonder what you do when you have days that feel like trying to start an old car. Me? An extra cup of coffee or tea, a snack, and high vibe playlist. It’s going to be a good day no matter how it starts, my love.

Tolar Parker 4/21/25 Tolar Parker 4/21/25

4.21.25

I’m playing hooky today (not really, I just took a day off) and I thought about what it would be like to play hooky with you. To blow off some adult responsibilities and have a “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” style day. Lunch, a museum, maybe me singing in the middle of a parade… Sounds fun. Let’s go!

Tolar Parker 4/20/25 Tolar Parker 4/20/25

4.20.25

Isn’t it wild to know that on any given day, we could meet? A smile. A glance. An exchange of quick wit or a well placed one liner. Magic can happen in the smallest of moments.

Tolar Parker 4/19/25 Tolar Parker 4/19/25

4.19.25

I wonder what your creative side looks like. How does it manifest in your life? Art? Music? Writing? Problem solving? I’m excited to see if our creativity could play together. What do you want to create together, my love?

Tolar Parker 4/18/25 Tolar Parker 4/18/25

4.18.25

I appreciate the certainty that will come with our paths crossing. No games. No chasing. Just honest and intentional pursuing.

Tolar Parker 4/17/25 Tolar Parker 4/17/25

4.17.25

The joy we will feel

Purposely built and nurtured

Edifying both

Tolar Parker 4/16/25 Tolar Parker 4/16/25

4.16.25

I look forward to learning from you. Whether something big or small, I’m sure there is much you can teach me and it will grow my love and attraction to you even more. Because here’s my secret… I get turned on by intelligence. It’s sexy AF.

Tolar Parker 4/15/25 Tolar Parker 4/15/25

4.15.25

I’m listening

All you have to do is whisper

Tolar Parker 4/14/25 Tolar Parker 4/14/25

4.14.25

“This morning is amazing and so are you.” -Nick Cave

I would love to bring you coffee in bed. To slip back under the sheets and slowly sip as we greet the day ahead of us.

Tolar Parker 4/13/25 Tolar Parker 4/13/25

4.13.25

Sometimes, when I close my eyes, I envision your soft skin beneath my fingertips. A softness that cannot be bought nor manufactured, but that is exquisitely unique to your lovely form. May my hands touch you with a reverence worthy of delighting in your suppleness.

Tolar Parker 4/12/25 Tolar Parker 4/12/25

4.12.25

There is something satisfying about putting your hands in the dirt of a garden. Hands that we often take for granted became a source of nurturing the life we place into the earth. The till and the toil may not always be easy, but worth it. Seeing colors open just because of your tender care or delighting in a fresh harvest because of your patience.

Our love will be like that of a garden - in need of nurturing, tending, and patience. To reap a deeper joy and connection worth the work. Together we’ll see our love bloom and we’ll delight. In each other. Always.

Tolar Parker 4/11/25 Tolar Parker 4/11/25

4.11.25

“For a dinner date, I eat light all day to save room, then I go all in: I choose this meal and this order, and I choose you, the person across from me, to share it with. There's a beautiful intimacy in a meal like that.“

-Anthony Bourdain

I would like to have dinner with you. To explore the magic that has connected us. To have delectable flavors roll over our tongues in both food and words. Only to feel satiated in body and soul.

Tolar Parker 4/10/25 Tolar Parker 4/10/25

4.10.25

I’m looking forward to texting you during the day.

To check in on you.

To share our inside jokes.

To tell you that I’m looking forward to seeing you again.

Tolar Parker 4/9/25 Tolar Parker 4/9/25

4.9.25

It’s one of those days where I know I’m in my head. I would just want you to listen. Not try to solve anything.

Just.

Listen.

And maybe a hug.

I hope that we could both feel safe together where we could talk and hold space for each other on days like this.

Just.

Listen.

And maybe a hug.

Tolar Parker 4/8/25 Tolar Parker 4/8/25

4.8.25

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to embrace more unknowns and variables in my life. Therefore, I’ve embraced you. You’re an unknown, a variable… for now.

Tolar Parker 4/7/25 Tolar Parker 4/7/25

4.7.25

It’s pouring rain today. The question is: do we share an umbrella or do we go splashing with abandon?

Tolar Parker 4/6/25 Tolar Parker 4/6/25

4.6.25

It feels like I should whisper my songs to the ether today. Light rain, soft light, and delicate joys set the stage for quiet words of hope and longing. I hope you’re enjoying a day made for whispers.