Songs to the Ether

Tolar Parker 5/21/25 Tolar Parker 5/21/25

5.21.25

“You just haven’t met her yet.” - a co-worker

And they’re right.

I haven’t met you…

yet.

Tolar Parker 5/20/25 Tolar Parker 5/20/25

5.20.25

My arms around you

Your reciprocal embrace

A home for us both

Tolar Parker 5/19/25 Tolar Parker 5/19/25

5.19.25

Here’s a fun fact about me: I don’t snore (unless I’m sick), but sometimes I giggle in my sleep. I know you’ll find out for yourself one day, but I just wanted to let you know that my dreams can be really funny and I can’t help but wake myself up laughing.

Tolar Parker 5/18/25 Tolar Parker 5/18/25

5.18.25

In dreams you visit

Bringing the sun and the moon

Love fills up my skies

Tolar Parker 5/17/25 Tolar Parker 5/17/25

5.17.25

It’s a stormy Saturday morning. I would love nothing more than to cozy up with you and listen to the distant thunder while the rain softly falls on the roof.

Tolar Parker 5/16/25 Tolar Parker 5/16/25

5.16.25

I hope you haven’t caught whatever this summer cold business is that’s going around. Even if we both caught it at the same time, I would take such good care of you. Stay healthy out there, my love.

Tolar Parker 5/15/25 Tolar Parker 5/15/25

5.15.25

I’d be lying if I said that I’m feeling patient in my waiting for you. Today has me deep in my feelings. An ache, a longing for you to come forward.

Tolar Parker 5/14/25 Tolar Parker 5/14/25

5.14.25

I will not need to convince you of my worth nor will you need to convince me of yours and we will be each other’s treasure.

Tolar Parker 5/13/25 Tolar Parker 5/13/25

5.13.25

I am grateful that when our paths cross, we will be ready for the same things - love, devotion, fun, kindness, adventure. We will walk the path together as equals and share in each other’s joys and sorrows as we partner together to build the life we desire with each other.

Tolar Parker 5/12/25 Tolar Parker 5/12/25

5.12.25

I’m grateful that you will delight in my kindness and attentiveness towards you. You will see my enthusiasm about us as a treasure. You will not find those qualities as a fault, but as part of the solid foundation of our connection. You will receive all of who I am and all that I have to offer as I will receive all of who you are and all that you have to offer.

Tolar Parker 5/11/25 Tolar Parker 5/11/25

5.11.25

I’m grateful that, when you appear, you will come with an emotional availability that I know that I am deserving of. And I will be open and available for you and you alone.

So, I’ll wait.

As long as I need to.

Tolar Parker 5/10/25 Tolar Parker 5/10/25

5.10.25

I will take our connection one day at a time. I want a slow burn. A lasting fire. Building on the intentional foundation we lay. One day at a time.

Tolar Parker 5/9/25 Tolar Parker 5/9/25

5.9.25

I know that one day our patience will pay off. We will let out a sigh of relief when the realization hits us that this is it. That we’ve persevered through whatever life has thrown at us and our time has come. Whether it’s love for the first time or a second, third, or fourth go at it - our time has come. Patience, love. It’s coming.

Tolar Parker 5/8/25 Tolar Parker 5/8/25

5.8.25

I wonder how you’ll handle it when I get spontaneous. It’s not all the time, but I like a little impromptu date, adventure, ect. Be ready for anything, my love.

Tolar Parker 5/7/25 Tolar Parker 5/7/25

5.7.25

I’m excited to see how we compliment the different aspects of each other and bring out a fuller expression of who we are as individuals and as a couple. Maybe we’ll discover something about ourselves that we didn’t know until we came together and we can revel in the wonder of new discoveries.